I talked to a few men yesterday & today & learned that most of them all seem to alternate yes & no to women who serve them challenges to signal to us that their will be an immediate balance & that they are coming into your already committed relationship with life with frequent No's rather than yes. Now why
would they assume that a man would be controlled by me or another dominant woman & why do they choose us to try to lead if they don't have a better way is my question? Maybe we want 'him' (Mr. Right that is) to
control my crazy ass or someone else's. I just want a man to do what I say all the time.
That's it. I don't want him to have opinions in the opposite direction of my desires of my bullshyt. I'm looking to get my way & he's looking to show me its not going my way & i'm supposed to want or aste time on this stranger I'm not even attracted to? Who does that? I just need
him to make it happen ( my needs) without aggrivating me. If he doesn't know how to do what I want or need, learn to do it & make it happen is what I want. lmao. I'm not as
difficult if I'm equally sexually attracted to him. That's why women do not talk to every man that is attracted to her. Its because the feeling is not mutual or your going to be at her mercy fellas. I know I be impossible sometimes because i'm just
not into who wants to be into me literally. smh,
I mean the bottom line is a guy who wants a great woman, has to approach her with great promise & delivery. Do something great! Otherwise, don't approach me like I'm a dime a dozen. Google The Celeb kid Rhoda DuChess Pruitt and understand you have a tough Act to follow & mediocrity is just not selling women these days. I love a man who sacrifices for me from the start and builds me, not tears me down & tells me what I can or can't do or its goodbye, before I say Hi! He has to make
me feel like I'd be a fool not to be fuc***g with him. you feel me.
they pick us, why do they feel we should adjust to them when they stop us during our days?
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ReplyDeletePreach Girl! These men need to eithier find a different approach or dont approach at all! Dont be afraid to Love a dominant woman. love & respect her! The pick me up lines these men use are so tired..at least if your going to stop me at least be worth my time
ReplyDeleteI agree. They make you feel like your supposed to audition for them when they stop us. I'm just saying...The best date is when they take you somewhere you have to go anyway to get something accomplished. Don't try to surprise me with all kinds of nonsense traveling when I HAVE SPECIFIC NEEDS I'M TRYING TO MEET. They try to prove from the start that they are going to do what they want to do & when you don't want to be bothered, they act surprised. lol. Common sense I see is just not so common! smh
ReplyDeleteIf they haven't gotten it by now..no need for the ladies to continue holding our breath waiting for them to get it right. I could be the intimidation of the "strong black woman" that makes them act like fools. I don't need your 5 star restaurant treats that somehows turns into a payback. Save the bs. I know what I want and that's all I need. If you can't give me that..your waisting my time!! Its all about showing & proving. Less talk more action.
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